Principles of Playful Parenting…
Play is learning and learning is play for young
children. Although we as parents are grown and have
given up some of our childlike play, our young children
have not and if we can engage in play with them, we
build connections, confidence and deep relationships.
Here are a few principles of playful parenting. This is
adapted from Playful Parenting by Dr. Lawrence J.
Cohen, with some added fun!
A. Join children in their world (the amazing world of play).
B. Focus on making a connection and encouraging confidence.
C. Follow the giggles, that's where the connection and fun are.
D. Learn rough and tumble play gently and playfully.
E. Reverse the roles (let children be the strong one, the capable one, the monster,
the doctor giving the vaccination).
F. Empower and connect with all children regardless of gender. All children
need both the freedom to soar carefully and a safe place to land. Encouragement
gives them the ability to try to soar and connection gives them a safe place to
land.
G. Follow your children's lead in play. If they want to play vet clinic, play vet clinic.
If they want to play monster trucks, play monster trucks. Make the sounds and
pretend with lots of expression. This is where the fun lives!