Principles of Playful Parenting…

Play is learning and learning is play for young

children. Although we as parents are grown and have

given up some of our childlike play, our young children

have not and if we can engage in play with them, we

build connections, confidence and deep relationships.

Here are a few principles of playful parenting. This is

adapted from Playful Parenting by Dr. Lawrence J.

Cohen, with some added fun!

A. Join children in their world (the amazing world of play).

B. Focus on making a connection and encouraging confidence.

C. Follow the giggles, that's where the connection and fun are.

D. Learn rough and tumble play gently and playfully.

E. Reverse the roles (let children be the strong one, the capable one, the monster,

the doctor giving the vaccination).

F. Empower and connect with all children regardless of gender. All children

need both the freedom to soar carefully and a safe place to land. Encouragement

gives them the ability to try to soar and connection gives them a safe place to

land.

G. Follow your children's lead in play. If they want to play vet clinic, play vet clinic.

If they want to play monster trucks, play monster trucks. Make the sounds and

pretend with lots of expression. This is where the fun lives!

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