Chores for Little Ones…
Young children love to help out, but often we
don't let them because we think it's easier-
and faster-to do everyday jobs ourselves. Your
child might take 15 minutes to finish a job you can
do in one minute. But in 15 minutes your child can
learn a lot!
What I like to call big jobs are different from chores. Chores are assigned to
children who already can accomplish the task well. Big jobs are indoor and
outdoor jobs children do with their families (or others) that help the whole family.
They include tasks like: setting the table, planting flowers, and tidying up when
visitors are coming. To adults they might seem like simple tasks, but big jobs carry
big rewards-for your child and your entire family.
So, what do children learn from big jobs?
Big jobs help children learn to work with other people and solve problems.
They also help children to compromise and to contribute to their family.
What are some big jobs young children can do?
Children can participate in the cooking process. From stirring batter to tearing
lettuce leaves, young children get a sense of accomplishment when the final
product is done.
Children can garden. Watering plants, digging holes and planting seeds are all a
necessary part of gardening and again children get a great sense of
accomplishment when they get to eat their produce.
Children can take care of pets. From feeding the dog, to brushing the cat or
cleaning the cage or aquarium, children learn how to take responsibility for their
pets. They also learn how to build empathy around their pets' needs and wants.
Children can clean. From sweeping the floors to emptying the "smaller" trash cans,
children get a great sense of pride from the work they did to accomplish the task.
Parent notes:
Make sure the job is safe for your child to do.
Stay close by during the first attempts.
Find child size tools for big jobs. It will make the job more successful.
Have fun! Talk about what you're doing as well as anything your child might want to bring up.
Remember to show appreciation for the work your child does and be specific. Say things like "Thanks for setting the table, everyone. We are ready for dinner now, and the table looks beautiful."